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Peak Burden

March 10, 2024 By admin

Alfred E. NeumanThe name of a mountain? Do they mean Burden Peak?

Nope. It refers to the moment in time when almost all boomers will be age 60 or older. It’s now projected to be sometime around 2029. That’s when the youngest baby boomers will begin to turn 65.

If you think peak burden sounds ominous, then you’re going to hate the term “population time bomb.” Hey, it’s not our fault. Our parents chose to have children when they chose to have children. Once again, the sheer size of the boomer population is causing stress to the economy, and it’s only going to get more stressful.

One of the most obvious stress factors is that boomers are hogging the housing supply. Not only does that cause a shortage of stock for younger generations, it also pushes up demand which pushes up prices. Last year was the worst year for housing sales since 1995, and boomers show no inclination to downsize any time soon, so millennials that have children can’t find housing large enough for a growing family.

The next problem caused by peak burden is the labor shortage. There are more job openings going unfilled – about 9.5 million jobs to be specific. Worker shortages in turn can cause inflation. Boo! We’ve had enough of that due to Covid.

Then there is a stock market in which 80% of the stocks are owned by people 55 and older. I know! That statistic is shocking. Younger generations don’t have the spare funds or the inclination to invest. When boomers get nervous about market stability, they are more likely to sell. When there’s a big sell-off, we risk a recession. Then it would be like watching those dominoes falling.

Now if you’re not worried enough about these factors so far, you can throw in the fear (in some minds) that Social Security will run out of money. I know that won’t happen but the fear mongers love to throw that one on to make the dumpster fire more impressive.

What to do? Follow the advice of Alfred E. Neuman. You remember him from MAD Magazine. Boomers grew up with Alfred. He turns 68 this year and retired back in 2019 when he was only 63. Al’s advice still resonates with baby boomers: What me worry? It will serve us well when we hit the peak burden, for sure.

Jay Harrison is a writer and creative consultant for DesignConcept. You can also visit his author page here. His newest mystery novel, Rio Puerco Demise is available on Amazon. His first mystery novel, Head Above Water, is also available on Amazon. But that’s not all. You can also purchase the Best of BoomSpeak on Amazon.

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Sandpit On the Moon

March 10, 2024 By admin

Armstrong on the moonThat night in July we met at a sandpit bordering the graveyard. I had come with my boyfriend Walker and his buddies. It felt like most of our other aimless, small-town summer nights. While the boys drank Budweiser, my boyfriend gave me a driving lesson. He had a ‘63 Rambler. The front seats went all the way back, perfect for exploring each other’s bodies. And I loved that boy, too. Almost fifty years later I can still recall his scent: Clearasil, Right Guard, Safeguard. All mixed with the musky aroma of sweat and desire.

The next year he would be off to college, unless he was drafted, and then who knew. But this night, carefree, we drove in circles, me behind the wheel, listening to Neil Young on the 8-track player.
Then I stalled out; when I restarted the ignition I panicked, digging the wheels deeper. We called the boys to help us, but they wanted to get home. The first moon landing would be broadcast. As cool as we thought we were, no one wanted to miss it.

We couldn’t budge the car. The gang left us in time to see Armstrong and Aldrin take their first bouncing steps, as unsteady as the boys after drinking their 16-ounce cans of beer. We left the car in the sand and walked home.

It wasn’t until 20 years later, at a wedding or a funeral, that my boyfriend confessed how disappointed he was at missing history. He joked about it, but I could tell. It hadn’t mattered to me. I was firmly planted on the earth with people I loved. They were not drafted yet. I could still taste his sex in my mouth that night. That is what I remembered.

My boyfriend got a high draft number, but we broke up anyway. I moved out of state; the boys all stayed in our small town. Most survived, but not all. Whenever I returned home over the years for this one’s wedding or funeral, our talk always drifted back to the night in the sand pit, the night I got the Rambler stuck, the night we zigzagged through the woods back home, everyone sitting on the edge of couches in small ranch houses, tuned in on their black and white Motorolas, hoping it wasn’t a trick, expecting that the world was going to change any minute.

Lenore Balliro lives in Dartmouth, MA

 

 

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Bucket

March 10, 2024 By admin

Vietnamese boatsWe recently returned from a two-week trip to Vietnam and Cambodia which included a seven-day cruise on the Mekong, a trip on my husband’s bucket list. I had misgivings because Southeast Asia was not in my comfort zone. I still have bad memories of what happened last year when I got Covid in Morocco. Going to an emergency room in Marrakech was an experience I did not want to duplicate in Vietnam or Cambodia.

I was not sure about the food especially since I don’t eat pork or seafood which is abundant. The good news is that we stayed healthy and food was not a problem at all with plenty of delicious vegetarian options. We loved meeting friendly people along the way. We learned from our knowledgeable guides, saw bustling markets, visited quaint farms and villages, observed craft making, and cooking demonstrations. We toured bustling cities of Hanoi and Ho Chih Minh City, navigated streets crowded with scooters, experienced the wonders of limestone formations of Ha Long Bay and were wowed by the incredible ruins of Angkor Wat.

The cruise company, Avalon, was experienced with travelers of a certain age and kept our excursions short with rest time in between. I loved the river boat; hanging out on the deck, watching fishermen, enjoying the sunrise from the large windows of our comfortable stateroom, and getting to know the other guests at cocktail hour.

I realized one does have to be in rather good working order to go on a trip like this. There are long distances to walk in airports. Many days the weather was very hot and humid. The other potential perils were steps. There were narrow, rickety steps sometimes to get off the boat, to go on sampans, to navigate the ruins in Angkor Wat. There were steps off and on the tour buses. Even the luxurious hotels had hidden little steps, My husband slipped getting out of the pool at our luxurious hotel in Siem Riep, but he was OK. It was especially fun climbing on and off the local transportation; cyclos, tuk tuks and oxcarts.

As a baby boomer traveler, even though I’m not climbing mountains or bungee jumping, ( not that I ever did) there is still so much to see and appreciate in this wide and amazing world, especially if I venture out of my comfort zone!

Joanne Jagoda

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We Got It Right?

February 25, 2024 By admin

winner, winner, chicken dinner dancing chickenJust when you thought Boomers were getting blamed for everything, it turns out some younger generations think we are on the right side of some issues/contemporary trends.

A Reddit user posed the question: What are some things that Boomers got right? The following is a sampling of the feedback received. It may give you hope that all is not lost, and that younger generations can see that we get some things right after all. So, winner, winner, chicken dinner for you!

App Exhaustion — Boomers are just tired of apps. Stop making us download an app and set up an account for everything. You’re just collecting our information.

Outdoor Kids Play — Make them go outside. Take them to a park. Let them stop using their thumbs for a while so they get some fresh air.

Overpriced Concerts — $125 for one seat! That can’t be right. There’s some crazy inflation at work there.

Phones at concerts — Take a few pictures of your favorite act but what’s the deal with trying to record the whole concert? You’re never going to watch it again and you’re annoying the people around you. QUIT IT!

Kids Online — Is it really a good idea to let young kids have unfettered access to what’s online? A lot of adults shouldn’t have access never mind 10 year olds.

Tablet Babysitters — Watching parents ignore their kids in a restaurant or public space while the kids overdose on their tablet games. Try paying attention to them and engaging them in conversation instead of using tech toys as your babysitter.

Face Tattoos — Do we even have to go there? What kind of person thinks that’s a good idea? Removable studs are one thing, but permanent tattoos? Sheesh!

Gender Reveals — Dumb, dumb, dumb. How did this stupid reason for friends and family to gather ever get started?

TV Volume Is Screwed UP — Everyone, young and old, agrees that the volume is really effed up. Music comes over too loud and when you scale it back then the dialogue is a whisper. With all the technology out there, can’t they do better?

Blinded by the Light — It’s not just the pre-cataract surgery crowd! Everyone complains that headlights are too bright and night driving can be dangerous. Once again, can’t the automotive engineers do any better?

This is by no means a complete list, but isn’t reassuring to know that it’s not just aging Boomers who think we’ve got some problems that need solutions.

Jay Harrison is a writer and creative consultant for DesignConcept. You can also visit his author page here. His newest mystery novel, Rio Puerco Demise is available on Amazon. His first mystery novel, Head Above Water, is also available on Amazon. But that’s not all. You can also purchase the Best of BoomSpeak on Amazon.

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Repair Crew

February 25, 2024 By admin

woman with knee painNice easy walks and gentle swims … you’d think I was fully recovered from overdoing it a bit in January. However, just when I thought all my body parts were working in harmony, out of the clear blue of the western sky comes excruciating knee pain that brought all my good efforts to a halt.

After a few days of rest, heat, ice, Tylenol and Advil, it seems to be fine. I did a short test walk yesterday and a slightly longer test walk today, and so far, so good. But still, I’ve been exercising regularly for 50 years, and it shocks me how quickly things can go wrong.

When I complained to my husband about the pain, he said, “Ah, yes. The repair crew.”

Sometimes the guy is genius. When something hurts, and I start to feel sorry for myself, I think, calm down. It’s just the repair crew, and I am in need of repairs. They’re trying to fix this mess. Certainly, there are many ways to cope with pain, and I suspect most of us will dabble in those dark arts more and more as we age.

Growing older is not easy, but let’s consider ourselves lucky if we can get through it in reasonably good cheer and enjoy the time that is given to us.

Interestingly, I just finished a fantastic book that explores the possibilities of navigating adversity with dignity, grace and humor … so maybe some of it rubbed off on me. Historical fiction at its finest, A Gentleman in Moscow by Amor Towles, tells the story of Count Alexander Rostov, a Russian aristocrat living under house arrest in a luxury hotel for 30 years.

One of my favorite passages (and there are many) is when a friend talks to him about wanting to leave Russia and experience the conveniences of modern life. Count Rostov replies:

I’ll tell you what is convenient. To sleep until noon and have someone bring you your breakfast on a tray. To cancel an appointment at the very last minute. To keep a carriage waiting at the door of one party, so that on a moment’s notice it can whisk you away to another. To sidestep marriage in your youth and put off having children altogether. These are the greatest of conveniences, Anushka — and at one time, I had them all. But in the end, it has been the inconveniences that have mattered to me most.

I loved this book. It’s literary without being too fancy-pants. Just a fantastic story in a spectacular setting with great characters and thoughts and ideas that might haunt (or inspire) you for decades. If you should be so fortunate.

Donna Pekar is an aging badass (for real) who lives in California and writes Retirement Confidential.

 

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Alcazar

February 25, 2024 By admin

bathroom break in the woodsGrace was a fine woman. I loved her and her taste in men…after all, she liked me. When you both are widowed, there’s a kind of openness to a mature relationship. We’ve both ‘been there/done that’ with long sincere marriages, children, retirement. It’s a kind of agreement to enjoy the moment while we can. So, there we were in the formal garden of the Alcazar palace in historic Seville. Beautiful. Serene. Chest high, carefully trimmed hedges created a twisting, turning maize of pathways into the exotic world of Arabian nights.

The only problem was that I had to take a leak and we were on the ground level and the lavatories were up and behind the surrounding second-story balconies. Not wanting to break the enchanted mood by a sudden departure, I leaned close to the hedges in our narrow lane and watered the plants.

Grace said, “Do you hear water running?”

I zipped up and sighed in relief.

Her forehead wrinkled. “Wait,” she said, “did you just…?”

I just squeezed my lips and shrugged.

You know, there can come telling moments in relationships at the most unexpected times. Turns out this was one of them. Grace didn’t speak to me over our snack of coffee and rolls, and during our walk back to the hotel, and actually for the rest of the day. Who knew that my sweetheart was so sensitive? But I guess every relationship finds a moment when attitudes and feelings get exposed for the first time. Too bad we had to cross the Atlantic and enter an 8th century Muslim palace to find a tell-tale moment of truth.

I tried to keep my cool. I knew it wouldn’t do me any good to justify or deny what I did. I also wasn’t going to apologize. The little boy inside of me was chin-out and stiff jawed.

The next morning at breakfast, I accidentally knocked over my water glass. Our waiter grabbed the towel off his wrist, sopped up the spill and then squeezed the wet rag into the flower pot on the table. I caught Grace’s eye, lifted my shoulders and eyebrows…as if to say ‘see, guys know how to deal with excess fluids.’ It took a moment, but her lips curled slightly. Then we chatted happily for the rest of breakfast.

Retired trainer, and writing instructor, Joe Novara lives in Kalamazoo, Michigan. Writings include novels, short stories, a memoir and various poems, plays, anthologies and articles. Read more at https://freefloatingstories.wordpress.com/

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