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Go For Broke?

November 23, 2025 By admin

buddha paintingIf you are one of those baby boomers who thought they had enough savings to retire on but now are scared of going broke….join the club. Boomers who considered themselves wealthy because they are sitting on six figures in savings are now thinking they may not have enough.

There was a time when retirees could spend 4 percent of their savings per annum without the risk of running out in the last 30 years of their lives. The new number according to the latest research – is down to 2.1 percent.

What happened? For one thing, we may live to upwards of 95 years old. Put that factor on top of rising housing, health and food costs and you have the perfect storm scenario that makes retirees resort to strategies that used to be reserved for not so rich boomers. Instead of enjoying their retirement funds, they are still squirreling away savings.

The general perception that boomers, who own half the nation’s wealth, are kicking back and having a ball, is not really the case. Federal Reserve data indicates fewer than half of all boomers have enough savings for retirement and 43 percent of 55 to 64-year olds had no savings at all in 2022.

Now you can understand why the new retirement plan is the no retirement plan. It also explains why so many boomers are coming out of retirement to go back to earning money to live on. Around 20 percent of Americans over 65 are employed. That’s about 11 million people, and they pull in about 7 percent of all wages and salaries paid by U.S. employers. Back in 1987, they made up only 2 percent.

Spending below your means may be the new lifestyle of the “I thought we were wealthy” crowd. If you’re feeling sorry for yourself, spare some sympathy for Gen Xers who are worrying about financial insecurity right now, never mind worrying about retirement woes ahead.

But, as Buddha advised, “Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment.” Or as many fathers said to their sons, “Get a job!”

Jay Harrison is a writer and creative consultant for DesignConcept. His newest mystery novel, Rio Puerco Demise is available on Amazon. His first mystery novel, Head Above Water, is also available on Amazon. But that’s not all. You can also purchase the Best of BoomSpeak on Amazon.

Filed Under: ESSAY

Notes from a Non-snowbird

November 23, 2025 By admin

Here is something I haven’t seen in awhile – sunshine. The sky has been layered in ashy gray light for the whole month of January. Today, though, the sun pours over the snow and turns it white and shiny. Long, inky shadows from the trees criss-cross this canvas like lines of calligraphy. A soft breeze lifts puffs of snow off the roof tops and scatters it across the land. The sun pierces the icicles dangling from the branches and lights them from the inside out. This is the light that flows through my window and across the pages of my notebook.

Many of my friends don’t like snow. They fly down to Florida and gather in trailer-pod parks for the winter. I appreciate how the balmy, perfumed ocean breezes, powdery beaches, and tropical water serve as a tonic for a frozen soul, but its a little too crowded for me. The state is a hodgepodge of strip malls, amusement parks, congealed highways, chain restaurants and hospitals and instant care centers wrapped in a gorgeous coast line. Its a little too flat and congested for me, a crowded and cluttered foreground beneath a vast, empty sky. I prefer the contoured, gently rolling hills covered with evergreens, corn-stubbled fields, fresh water ponds and lakes scrimmed with ice and cattails, and skies filled with purple-bottomed snow clouds. I crave the clean, metallic smell of the air and the silence that blankets the the forest trails I walk on. I love to visit Florida, but if I stay too long, the inland breezes don’t quite cover the smell of gasoline and car exhaust, or the moldy aroma of decay.

Here is my advice for surviving a northern winter: do not go gently into this good season. Do not let it push you back inside. Do not let the silent weight of the arctic cold tether you to the stale breath of the furnace. Instead, go out into the teeth of the season. Let the wind tear your cheeks. Let the cold numb your fingers and burn your toes. Let the icy pellets sting your eyes. Climb the frozen waves along Lake Michigan and spit back at the snow clouds scudding through the sky. Rage, rage at the fury of winter’s might. Stand at the edge of the freezing dark and wring the pleasures from its dying light.

(From the best of BoomSpeak, 2018)

Scott Peterson is from the cold North of Kalamazoo, Michigan

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Slot Machine Magic

November 23, 2025 By admin

casino slot machineKate wasn’t sure how long she’d been sitting in this spot. The clangs and whistles of the machine transported her to a familiar hypnotic trance. Her right arm reached for the button as easily as breathing. She watched the numbers roll, not aware of whether she won or loss. When the light dimmed and the rolls ceased, she took her last $20 and slid it into the machine’s mouth. “This is the last one,” she muttered aloud as if trying to convince herself, and the machine, that she had some measure of control.

At that moment an elderly gentleman sat next to her. “I’ve said that before,” he said as he swiveled his chair to face her. “Particularly that machine, it’s a thief.” The woman turned and looked at the gentleman, neatly dressed, a tweed sports jacket, cashmere turtleneck, woolen slacks and designer leather shoes. She suddenly was aware of her own dress, a coffee-stained polyester sweatpants and sweatshirt. She grunted at him. What did he know about financial problems? She turned back to the machine for the next spin, but he persisted. “How much has he taken from you, that bastard? You’re a nice woman, why don’t you go home, use your money to pay off your debts?”

The woman hit the spin button again, trying to block out his smooth voice piercing through her stupor. What money? She was completely broke. She wanted to respond, to tell him to mind his own business, but suddenly he was gone. She hit the spin button again and watched the numbers rolling past her eyeballs until the face, his face, three of them stared back at her from the pay line. Bells and whistles filled the room, everyone looked at her. The numbers began clicking upward, stopping at $20,000. She sat in disbelief. Maybe she could go home now, pay off her credit card. She cashed out her winnings.

As she walked away, she saw the gentleman take a seat next to another woman.

Marcia Szymanski is a poet and fiction writer from Massachusetts. One of her short-short stories was published in Foliate Oak Literary Magazine. Her poems have been published in The Berkshire Review, Bridges: A Jewish Feminist Journal and Verdad Magazine.

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The Signs

November 9, 2025 By admin

road signs for highwayHere’s a new game. You know you’re old when ______ (fill in the blank…you know, the blank).

When asked what was something about aging that no one warned you about (or maybe they did and you forgot) baby boomers have a lot to say.

“The slow loss of everything, your abilities, your health, your friends, relatives, places you loved, etc. Just the eroding away of everything.”

Ouch.

“The invisibility.”

Ouch again.

“Aches and pains don’t go away in a day. Sometimes it takes a week.”

Ouch. Ouch. Really, that hurts.

” …eventually you will end up in that CVS aisle you always skipped because it didn’t pertain to you.”

“How fast time goes by. I was 21 yesterday. Now I’m 69. Time went by way too quickly.”

“All the napping! I’ve never needed so many naps…”

“When you hear a song or band from your youth that you absolutely hated because they were so cheesy and god-awful bad, but now when you hear it.. it brings back smiles and memories…. that’s the cleansing power of nostalgia!”

“How precious time will feel. Every moment matters to me now and I have no patience for squandering it. I consider myself very laid back but if there is anything that will trigger me, it’s someone wasting my time. Feels like they’re stealing my most precious resource.”

“As a male. The crazy ear and nose hairs that grow.”

“I wish they had warned me that it’s OKAY ‘not to do anything’ when you retire. My husband and I have been retired about two years now, and it’s been wonderful. But we’re not jetting around the world. We are just relaxing, enjoying being home. And that’s okay, it doesn’t mean we have a worse life now.”

“That I would feel this great. And content. And so much more in love with my SO, decade after decade…that for all the travail I’ve had a wonderful life.”

It might be a useful exercise for boomers to sit down and write a brief declaration of what’s right about this time in their life. Be it closeness to a mate, a sense of having lived a productive life, or the ability to look back on your good works. It may also be helpful to shelve the complaints and focus on what turned out right.

That being said, not every boomer is in a happy place right now, and no amount of buffing is going to make their lot any better.

Count yourself lucky if that’s not you.

Jay Harrison is a writer and creative consultant for DesignConcept. His newest mystery novel, Rio Puerco Demise is available on Amazon. His first mystery novel, Head Above Water, is also available on Amazon. But that’s not all. You can also purchase the Best of BoomSpeak on Amazon.

Filed Under: ESSAY

On Her Shoulders

November 9, 2025 By admin

Good Housekeeping magazine cover from 1960It was our mother’s 1960-something Good Housekeeping Magazine that helped ease my sister’s loneliness and gave her hope for future happiness. Growing up, I always sensed that Elaine was different from me and our peers. In photos of our 1950s Easter Sundays, I posed in pastel dresses, teased hair and frontward knee, our younger brother in a little-boy-suit, squinting against the sun. Elaine, the oldest, towered over us, donning a dress, hat, and handbag. The outfit was her size, but none of what she wore seemed to fit her.

The photos reflect her anguish in a world where she felt lost and alone. Elaine’s passions were reading, watching TV, and biting her nails. It could be a sweltering 96̊ and still, she’d plant herself on the porch with a book and settle in for hours of reading and nail-biting.

Our brother was off being a boy while I barricaded myself in the bathroom to splash on my mother’s Jean Nate, use her makeup, and fuss with my hair.

Sometime in our twenties, as our brother traveled through Australasia, Elaine asked me to meet her for dinner. Finally, she drew a deep breath and said, “I had no idea I was normal (she used air quotes) until I read an article in Mom’s magazine. A mother wrote about her journey to love and embrace her daughter, a lesbian. I felt like that woman knew me…she gave me a name. For the first time ever, I didn’t feel alone in the world.”

We told our parents together. Our mother hugged Elaine tightly, cried, and said she’d always love her for who she was. Our father reached for his keys and left the house; it was the last time he’d speak to her. Like others of our generation who ‘came out,’ Elaine also endured hurdles at work and the cruelty of strangers. As witness to this torment, I wanted badly to strike back whereas Elaine turned away and ushered me along with her usual grace and fortitude.

Today, Elaine’s retired, owns a home, and is still addicted to TV, books, and nail-biting. Elaine’s married and at her wedding, she asked that we remember those who came before her and her wife Barbara, on whose shoulders they now stand. Their wedding photos reveal Elaine dressed in clothing that fits her, clothes of her own choosing. She’s facing the sun, smiling, brimming with joy and belonging.

Bev Mondillo Wright, a writer who lives in Providence, Rhode Island

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Bacon, Bacon, Bacon

November 9, 2025 By admin

bacon stripsDuring the first couple of months after I retired, my husband and I were driving each other nuts, what with me wanting him to eat healthier and live longer and then his raging indifference to my loving intentions. So, I thought, fine, you want to die, let’s get this show on the road, and I gave him “Bacon of the Month Club” for Christmas.

He would receive a monthly shipment of bacon for three months courtesy of Zingerman’s. I would have done the whole year, but that seemed too obvious.

I like bacon, but most of the time, I’m like, no thanks, I’ve already had cancer. Until delicious specialty pork products started arriving at the door, I wasn’t even tempted. But now there was pressure.

The first shipment was a pound of Nueske’s applewood smoked bacon from Wisconsin. The package included a keepsake binder with articles about bacon and the people who make it, “A Pocket Book of Bacon” and a pig magnet for the refrigerator.

At first I would only eat one piece, and I said we can never have this more than once a week. Then I said, oh, two pieces won’t kill me, but never, never more than once a week. And then I said, oh, what difference does it make if we eat it twice a week? We’re all going to die anyway.

In hindsight, I can see bacon helped us bond through a challenging transition in our lives. Whatever was going on – me in bed at night, worrying about what happens if the North Koreans bomb us and ruin my retirement and him worrying about me being awake worrying about North Korea.

But then it’s morning, the sun is glorious, the birds are chirping and wait, what is that other sound? Could it be the siren call of bacon?

One morning I took a picture of two simple slices of bacon on a plate and posted it on my Instagram account. I don’t get tons of Instagram traffic, but bacon is my most popular post to date. I look at the number every couple of weeks, and I report to Dale that bacon, of all my posts, is still in the lead. He laughs every time. The picture of me bald after chemotherapy is a heart-tugging second, but it’s not bacon.

We’re adjusting to our new lifestyle. I gave up pestering him about what he eats. Besides, he kind of came around on his own. Our membership in Bacon of the Month Club had expired, and one day he said, you know, that was fun, but we shouldn’t eat so much bacon.

I let him think it was his idea – a trick I learned at work.

(Best of BoomSpeak. 2017)

Donna Pekar is an aging badass (for real) who lives in California and writes Retirement Confidential.

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